Thursday, July 9, 2009

Some of Soren's friends

Splashing with Tayla in the mini swimming pool (a.k.a. dish tub). Tayla is Soren's agemate, only 11 days older, and her mom is one of my best mama friends!

Soren showing Ella his cardboard box "house" for his stuffed animals. Check out Ella's shoeless foot and her adorable ballet-slipper sock! She's a couple of months older than Soren.
Gazing out the window with 3-yr-old Zia, who has been fascinated with Soren since before his birth. Apparently she had the "how are babies made?" discussion with her dad, a doctor, after they saw me at the food co-op in the last month of my pregnancy!

When Zia's mom started reading a story, it was the first time in months that Soren sat still for an entire book reading. He's gradually getting interested in books again, beyond chewing them or flipping the pages.

And, last but not least, Soren has gained three 14-year-old girl friends (this is Sarah), who take turns coming over and playing with him in the role of "Mother's Helper." I'm always at the house as well, but sometimes they take him out for a walk alone. The help is always appreciated, and he loves all of them -- Kaila and Lexie, you, too!

Some of Soren's firsts

First 8-Hour Sleep: Yippeee!!! Last night Soren slept 8 hours without waking for the first time in his life -- which is fairly dramatic even though he is only 10.5 months old, because guess who else has also not gotten to sleep a solid 8 hours in that same time period...?

One week ago we had to transition him from his baby hammock to a crib (OK, a pack 'n' play) because he was wanting to roll over and sleep on his side or belly, and that just doesn't work so well on a concave surface. That newness, coupled with his great mental and physical excitement over learning to walk (see below) meant he was not sleeping soundly at all. A helpful discussion at a mom's support group convinced me we had to make a change in our nighttime routine, and to make a long saga short, last night was the first night I refused to nurse him back to sleep at his first waking, 1.5 hours after he first went to bed. Boy, he was not happy about this turn of events, and wailed and arched his back and scratched my face -- but I held firm and just held and rocked him back to sleep. It took two tries of laying him down in his crib (he woke up the first time, and we had to repeat the whole process), but then he amazed us and slept without a peep from 10:45 p.m. to 6:45 a.m. OK, I didn't sleep soundly the whole time, because I would wake up and wonder why he wasn't waking, but I restrained myself from checking on him. So we'll see what tonight brings... I'm not counting on another 8 hours, but anything more than the 2-4 hour stretches he's been sleeping would be much appreciated!

First Potty: I mentioned in an earlier post that we've started incorporating the practices of "Elimination Communication" (a.k.a. Diaper-Free). If you want to know more, here's a helpful link. Again, to make a long saga short, after some early success in teaching Soren to pee standing up in the "bathtub urinal" (!), we ordered a Baby Bjorn Little Potty chair and a separate toilet-seat reducer of the same brand. The day after the potty chair arrived, he sat and peed in it (see photos here), and the day after that, he sat and pooped in it (this was when he was 9.5 months old). I was super excited about that, but alas, that feat has not been repeated. However, Soren is getting diligent about pooping standing up and then not sitting down until I have changed him, which helps keep the mess to a minimum. Just this week, he peed while sitting on the toilet seat reducer for the first time. The whole experience has put me much more in tune with his elimination schedule and needs, and while Soren still wears diapers most of the day, I am using about half as many disposables as I did before we started "EC." We use more cloth, since it allows him to feel wet, and he also gets quite a bit of bare-bum time, outdoors and on our tile floor. As you can see below, Soren is just as excited about moving toward diaper freedom as I am. (Yes, there's pee in that potty!)
First Strawberry: OK, strawberries are potential allergens, but as Soren has shown no food sensitivities to date, we couldn't come up with a compelling reason not to share the jeweled bounty of our June-bearing strawberry patch. They're heaven bundled into a berry. Soren loves them.

First Steps: Soren's birthday present to me on June 22 was to take his first steps unassisted: about three tottering paces from Jeff's arms to a chair. He occasionally practices steps here and there, but mostly is getting faster and faster at sidestepping as he "cruises" around our house. First he had to hold on to built-in furniture, then he progressed to movable furniture that might slide around, and now he just supports himself on the walls or cabinets, so he can go all the way around a room. Yep, he's pretty pleased with himself.
Too much to tell here: there's also Soren's First Stair Climb, First High Five, First Bubble Blowing...

Tuesday, June 30, 2009

Busy with the "busy box"





In an effort to feel like I have accomplished something today in the wider world besides doing laundry, grocery shopping, and managing to shower while Soren bounced in the Johnny-Jump-Up, I am posting these recent photos of our charming little lad.

I was trying to capture the lip tuck in the second photo from the bottom, but the other shots are awfully precious as well. He's getting cuter by the day!

Note that Soren outsmarted this new "busy box" toy within one day -- instead of puzzling over how to shift the lever, pull the ring, etc. to pop open the compartment with the animal, he figured out he could simply pry open the lids. Sigh. At least it keeps him sort of busy...

Wednesday, June 17, 2009

Cuteness update

Yippee-ti-yee, here's the latest cuteness report on Soren William. He's awfully adorable wearing Mommy's hat...
...prettily proud of himself for practically chewing through the spine of a cardboard book (!) -- guess that was an otherwise mind-chewingly boring car ride...
...bouncily balancing on a big ball with Dad's help -- note proper crawling position...
...poshily posing on the potty with Mom (we're excitedly experimenting with Elimination Communication (aka Diaper Free technique) and would love to connect with other families similarly pottying their babies before toddlerhood)...
...and, lastly, smilingly swinging with visitors Olivia and Charlotte from Olympia. This is Soren's newest favorite outdoor activity, being pushed in the kid swing handed down from the Marxes (thank you!) that we hung under our deck.

Check Soren's blog for even more cute pix!

Sunday, June 14, 2009

Soren on trapset

The following 27-second video demonstrates the musical and life skill we are teaching Soren. We have read that boys who have drumming as a physical outlet experience less stress and aggression. And he can accompany us in our living-room music jams.

Soren's "trapset" consists of his bodhran drum and a cowbell. Little does he know that when he's ready, there's his dad's full drumset in storage the basement, waiting for him! (Jeff plays a very boring role in this video, as he sits on the floor beside his son, paying bills.)


Soren bouncing on the bed

Er, make that bouncing in the bed. Here's a short video (25 seconds) shot on May 22, of Soren amusing himself just after waking up from a nice nap in his hammock bed. That, and letting me know he's ready to be picked up!


Monday, June 8, 2009

Auntie Nora in Port Townsend

Auntie Nora has even lighter blue eyes than Soren!
She captured some really cute expressions -- boyish looks, not baby faces.
Snoozing on my back in the Ergo carrier.
"Cruising" along the cedar deck furniture, in his sun hat with the neck flap.
And in crawling position...video to come. He's finally mobile on his hands and one knee (!).